Relationships Between A Man and Woman

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Before I start. Let me tell you DO NOT READ THIS if this is a touchy subject. A lot of the things I will say are opinionated and are from my own experiences. OK now that I got that off my chest. Let us begin. Relationships will ALWAYS be one of the most difficult things we do because we are people, the most complicated beings on the planet. You must first come to understand that and from there you will succeed.

Anyway, what I will talk about is the basics of relationships. Simple what to do and what not to do. How to react and how to NOT freak out.

Now I wrote in previous blogs the HOW TO meet people. Which is very simple. Now this is what we do AFTER we are together. When you are talking to your bf/gf, I've seen people freak out over the simplest things, listen to them with an open mind. If they say something you don't like don't get mad or upset because THEY said it. You cant control what they say. it just makes no sense. IF you guys ever fight don't let what they say get to you. From my experience when people are angry they tend to say a lot of things that they truly don't mean and it just comes out. Communication is KEY!!! Remember that. A lot of things can be solved by TALKING to your partner. Simple as that. There still will be instances when people will have those days when they let EVERYTHING affect them. But just know you have a lot more power to control circumstances than you may think.

When your bf/gf does something that you don't like, it would be best not to react in a hostile manner. Think about your actions before you do them. I know you've heard that before so TRY IT. One thing that I found to help me is to NOT freak out when other guys or girls check your partner out. I mean they are attractive, thats why you are with them and not the other person. I've seen people end year long relationships because they get jealous over SOMEONE ELSE looking at their partner.

Insecurities always happen. An example is being afraid of losing your partner for someone else. Think about what you want RATHER than what you don't want. It ALWAYS WORKS. And if it doesn't work it's because you are focusing on the wrong thing. You and your partner are together for a reason so why worry about losing them. YOU HAVE THEM. Thats like having a cat and holding it soooo close because you are afraid of losing it and you drive it away because it doesn't like ALL the attention.

The SAME thing happens in relationships. All you have to do is keep being the person that your partner started to like and everything will work. Now I'm not saying don't grow. Growing is very important. But just be YOU and don't change for the other person because that always turns out bad. Im going to end it on this. If you are meant to be things will work out not by fate but by design. YOU design your future and your life. SO its UP TO YOU!!!

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To Your Success,
Corey Otten